My son is dying

BeholdeR 10-03-2011 8 رد 2,222 مشاهدة
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Slam 3likom..

While I was googling for nothing >>I used to do such thing without
main goal ..:036:

I found a topic which was written by a mother she is in a veery very hard position and she asked for advise ..:035:

I wont tell u if u were her what u r u going to do because In shaa Allah it wont happen to u, but if she or another one who is in her position asked u for advice how r u going to advise her what will u tell her..?:060:

this is what she wrote..


Telling my son he is dying - Please Help!!!?

Hello.. A few months ago my son,found out he had Melanoma which is a cancer of the skin. He is only 15
years old. The other day we went to the doctor for a check up following the completion of chemotherapy. The doctor called my husband and i out to the hall and told us that my baby is not going to make it. He estimated his time at about 5 months (about Christmastime). We were both shocked as we thought was improving. When we went back into the room I was crying and Evan knew something was up. I told him that the doctor didn't say anything too important. We have always been honest with our son about this up till that point. We told his older brother to be extra nice to him. How should i break this news to my baby? The doctor said it will most likely be an extremely painful death. He recommended talking to a hospice but i don't know if I want my baby to die somewhere like that. What should i do to help my 15 year-old son understand what is going to happen? How do your baby he is going to pass away? Please help. Thank you.


Hoping he is ok now..:091:
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its really a tough situation
first of all i hope her son will be good
second i recommend her not to tell him the truth because sometimes when people know that they are going to die soon they start to get defeated and surrender
so they should just try to give him hope because specially in cancer nothing is known and sometimes doctors get these things wrong because after all its all up to god only

thanks for the heartbreaking topic
and i hope for all to be sound and healthy
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Co0lGurl;14671764:
its really a tough situation
first of all i hope her son will be good
second i recommend her not to tell him the truth because sometimes when people know that they are going to die soon they start to get defeated and surrender
so they should just try to give him hope because specially in cancer nothing is known and sometimes doctors get these things wrong because after all its all up to god only

thanks for the heartbreaking topic
and i hope for all to be sound and healthy



Hmm.. I totally disagree with u ..

If I were her (In shaa Allah I wont) I will tell him ..

all of us will die but there is a big difference between someone who thinks that he is dying .. surely he will prepare for the Day of Judgment and In shaa Allah will be in heaven..

I know it's veery hard telling someone such thing but that's for his benefit..

Allah heals every Muslim ..

thanx for passing ..

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that's extremely sad and totally heart breaking :(
i got tears in my eyes and i don't even know this person
i think she should tell her son and find out what he wants to do
this way she can make the right choice, between keeping him home or moving him to a hospital
what i know is that in these cases they keep the patient on morphine for the pain so i really hope he wouldn't suffer
my aunt passed from cancer 4 months ago and it was so hard for her and everyone
"allah yir7amha"
but i don't think it's fair or good to hide such a thing
he needs to know
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I hope that he is doing good now and healthy

2 be honest i don't know whether I tell him or not

It's really hard situation
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that's extremely sad and totally heart breaking :(
i got tears in my eyes and i don't even know this person
i think she should tell her son and find out what he wants to do
this way she can make the right choice, between keeping him home or moving him to a hospital
what i know is that in these cases they keep the patient on morphine for the pain so i really hope he wouldn't suffer
my aunt passed from cancer 4 months ago and it was so hard for her and everyone
"allah yir7amha"
but i don't think it's fair or good to hide such a thing
he needs to know


yeeeh .. my vision is almost similar to yours ..

oooh..my grandfather also passed away because of cancer.. :035:

غفـر الله لهـم وسـائر موتى المسلمين..

and sorry for bringing tears to yours eyes ..
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I hope that he is doing good now and healthy

2 be honest i don't know whether I tell him or not

It's really hard situation


hope2..

:-#yeee..as u said hard situation..

thanx for passing..
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شوي شوي
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ahlameye;14721619:
شوي شوي


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