hi
i am 18 years old. i go to college and i am in love with a man who is in college with me. He is 19 and we have the same major and the same interest in every thing. He loves me and i love him very much and we want to get married after we finish college. He is a good musliam and from my country. But not from the part i am from and my parents are very strict about any body in the family marring somebody out side our town. I know that in my heart i love him and will never be happy with any body else and i also know that my parents will never accept him i really don't know what to do i can't make my parents accept him and i can't break his heart. Should i leave him or should i waite and see if Allah is going to help us.
Please help me I am stilll young and i don't know what to do
your sister
emily
i need help
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26-04-2002 | 04:04 PM
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26-04-2002 | 11:01 PM
Hi emily..
First.. welcome to 3roos, and it's our pleasure having u with us.
Regarding ur problem..
I think dear it is so early to think of married. As u minssioned, ur 18 and he is 19, which means that u both r still young. In addition, that ur plan is to get married after college, which is a around 2 years later.
What u should do now is trying to be hounest to ur lover. Let him know that ur parents might not agree and give him the choise to wait till the time graduate or break-up. Also dear, u both should study hard, to prove to ur parents deserve the trust they gave u, and to make thim belive that he’s the right man whom is gona be the right husband of their daugter.
You never know what god is hidding for u. Don’t bother ur self with that and consentrate on ur study which is the more important to u now. Maybe one-day circumstances would change. You never know dear.
Wish u all the best sis.
First.. welcome to 3roos, and it's our pleasure having u with us.
Regarding ur problem..
I think dear it is so early to think of married. As u minssioned, ur 18 and he is 19, which means that u both r still young. In addition, that ur plan is to get married after college, which is a around 2 years later.
What u should do now is trying to be hounest to ur lover. Let him know that ur parents might not agree and give him the choise to wait till the time graduate or break-up. Also dear, u both should study hard, to prove to ur parents deserve the trust they gave u, and to make thim belive that he’s the right man whom is gona be the right husband of their daugter.
You never know what god is hidding for u. Don’t bother ur self with that and consentrate on ur study which is the more important to u now. Maybe one-day circumstances would change. You never know dear.
Wish u all the best sis.
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29-04-2002 | 08:57 AM
I'm with lamess
and thanks
and thanks
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12-05-2002 | 12:57 AM
hi emily i want 2 advise u (dont belive any man in thes world) they r laier and i wish u now that soon....... my heart with u.....