What turns a teacher into a heartless monster

【Green Salad】 05-03-2009 22 رد 4,297 مشاهدة
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Angry Teacher Rips Student’s Cheek Off



On December 18th, 2008, a 10 year-old 5th grader named Chao Qun Zheng went to his elementary school in HeNan, China.
When his teacher, Guo, found out that young Zheng had not completed his homework, she flipped out.
“She was very angry at the time,” he said. “She ripped and twisted my cheeks with both her hands and then she lifted me off the ground.”

The teacher held the boy up until one of his cheeks actually ripped off and the boy was bleeding profusely.
Without hesitation the teacher reached down and picked up Zheng’s cheek skin, put it on his face, and instructed the boy go home immediately.

When the parents saw Zheng, they immediately took him to the hospital where it took 52 stitches to have his cheek sewn back on.
Zheng’s father has reported the case to the police and is expected to press for damages.


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I found this scary &sad story while I was practising my favourite hobby : surfing the net to collect different beautiful & interesting pictures
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Then, suddenly I stopped at this photo >>:eek:!!!!
At first,I was really shocked and my immediate conclusion was
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Poor little boy>>>:tears:

What a terrible accident he had

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It must be a really big one to make those horrible stitches showing badly like that on his innocent face

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But, when I finished reading the whole article I was not shocked any more
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Coz, as for me I get really used to hear & read those kind of scary stories happening inside many different schools from the entire world

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A forgetful poor student becomes a victim of an angry cruel teacher
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Which make some teachers turns into some heartless monsters easily like that
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Lets discuss together
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As a teacher I never dare once to hurt any one of my naughty students badly like that
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The other teachers in my school are always shocked when they see me going inside my classes without any stick
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How can you control those naughty students with out it
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My answer is simple :

I always try my best to

set some strict rules right at the beginning of the year
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I avoid shouting & use eye contact w short & clear instructions
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I never allow my self to bring any stick inside my class room or any other object that can be used as a weapon against my poor little students
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I know that some teachers deal with lots of naughty and really troubled students !!
I know that our students are not angels but believe me my colleagues when one of my student does not do the homework and gives me one of her usual & silly excuses that students usually loves to use>>>
I always train myself hard to
control my anger
and
just try to
convince my self that it won't worth it if I pop one of her eyes out with my long stick mistakenly or slap her face
hard
just
for
a
piece of
paper
that can be written in
another
time
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Coz as you know when we mark those ugly and deep scars on their small shaking bodies be very sure that we also engrave them deeply inside their pure heart>>>
And as you know everything can be fixed easily
But not the scars of a scared heart
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that was my personal point of view and now I wanna know yours ladies
so,
shall we discuss this topic together
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Again: what turns a teacher into a heartless monster
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Green Salad:)(f)
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Hi dear Green salad..very useful artical which is reflect the reality of some teachers
who are distorting the educational process


There must be a committee in the Ministry of Education choose qualified teachers who
are able to raise an educated healthy Generation to avoid
these kind of teachers

In Addition the teachers should be treated in good way and have all his rights with high salary in order to perform his duties faithfully

thanks sweety for sharing us this topic
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Oh my GOD .I'm more shocked at the teachers in your school than at the article.I finished school a long time ago and never never was there a teacher who went to the classroom with a stick I really am shocked.
As for your methods you are totally right and smart also kids as well as they hate being punished they like rewards a lot and it can be really encouraging and motivating them to do better.Try stickers toys and snacks to those who are good and the others will follow.
What happened to the world and to adults????Dont they know that at the end of the day these students are kidz and dont know better.I hope you put some sense into them Green Salad Sweety.You are angel GOD BLESS YOU
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There must be a committee in the Ministry of Education choose qualified teachers who

are able to raise an educated healthy Generation to avoid
these kind of teachers
There must be a committee in the Ministry of Education choose qualified teachers who
are able to raise an educated healthy Generation to avoid
these kind of teachers

In Addition the teachers should be treated in good way and have all his rights with high salary in order to perform his duties faithfully
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Dear :15:butterfly:15: I totally agree w you sweety
[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]beside I think that what we teacher really need beside respect and good payment is to reduce
the stress in our tiring daily job
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I mean there are some poor teachers w lots of [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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Those kind of situations always drive them crazy and put them under a very heavy pressure
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But that does not mean that they should use this as an excuse to hurt their poor student badly
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thanks dear for sharing us w your valuable opinion I really appreciate your lovely passing sweety
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Green Salad:)(f)
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Oh my GOD .I'm more shocked at the teachers in your school than at the article.I finished school a long time ago and never never was there a teacher who went to the classroom with a stick I really am shocked.
As for your methods you are totally right and smart also kids as well as they hate being punished they like rewards a lot and it can be really encouraging and motivating them to do better.Try stickers toys and snacks to those who are good and the others will follow.
What happened to the world and to adults????Dont they know that at the end of the day these students are kidz and dont know better.I hope you put some sense into them Green Salad Sweety.You are angel GOD BLESS YOU
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Dear :15:L00L00:15: I just wanna clear something sweety
[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]punishing students w sticks or long rulers is not allowed in our schools
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And there are lots of my colleagues who do not use any kind of physical punishment in their class rooms
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But still there are some of them who believe that using a sticks or a long ruler is an effective punishment especially w the naughty students
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And some of them bring them [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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And what make me never dare to do the same is what I mentioned before that I might get very angry one day & wave the stick up and down and hit one of my student on her face by mistake!!
And if something like that happen believe me I 'll never forgive myself >>>ever
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And lets be [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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Our students need some times to be punished physically but again not like that:

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or
w that:


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[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]as you might all heard before about those silly stories when a heartless teacher closed
&
shut some of her students' loud mouths w a sticky tape
just
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some peace in her noisy class[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
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Thanks sweety :15:Lolo:15: for calling me an angel[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
:o[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4] but believe me sweety I am just a human [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]:wink:[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]being[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4] who gets really [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]:mad:[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4] angry easily and hits her student but not on their faces or w a long stick just a light slap on their [/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]:tongue:[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4] shoulder
and
who enjoy to fill their[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE]
[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]:mad_argue:[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4] heads w her wise tal[/SIZE][/COLOR][/SIZE][SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]king and many advises
and
lots of extra homework
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A strict mother I am to my precious dear students>>>
not a scary monster
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[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]thanks dear for sharing us w your valuable opinion I really appreciate your lovely passing sweety
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Green Salad:)(f)

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OMG

that's horrible

i realy think that a teacher can't become heartless

if they are like that

they were heartless from the beginning

and sometimes teachers have to know their line
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Lobna000;9047420:
OMG

that's horrible

i realy think that a teacher can't become heartless

if they are like that

they were heartless from the beginning

and sometimes teachers have to know their line

Thanks sweety :15:Lobna :15:for your previous comment>>
as for the heartless and cruel teacher that was mentioned in the above article I am totally w you she must have some extremely deep psychological problems
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Coz no teacher in her right mind will rip the check of her student strongly like that and then, when she will see the blood she'll just send him back home
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Green Salad:)(f)

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oh oh oh
God help his parents
she left a lifetime matk
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madam simo;9048108:
oh oh oh
God help his parents
she left a lifetime matk



Thanks madam :15:simo :15:for your previous comment
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Yahhh... dear you are absolutely right:(
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What she did for him is sooo horrible and will effect his future life deeply
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Dear Greeno your topic is very strong and true 100%....., I will not comment on the picture you put, coz you said enough God bless you,

what turns a teacher into a heartless monster?
Really there are lots and lots of reasons, some of theme are obvious, other are mean less, why I don't know, but the reason no.1 is the teacher him/her self is an angry and heartless person, and that because of many things, maybe the teacher is raised up like that, or maybe the situations in what was the reasons made hem/her like a monster……..



I will tell you about my experience in teaching, I taught two times, the first when I was pregnant in late of the eighth month, and if you know that this was very tired period in the , the pupils were in secondary school, teenager girls, they were so I mean so so naughty and so crazy girls, and the second from two months ago and this time I taught boys from first primary to fifth primary, I was shocked with their behaves, so I told the other teachers if the wrong is from me, or is just this happened for me coz I was new, but the teachers said no, the pupils are like this with all teachers, so the only banishment and the strongest one was reducing the mark of the careless pupil, believe me that was enough and so effective,



Dear Greeno thank u very much for this topic, I enjoyed writing my opinion, I want to write more but you know my little baby he doesn’t let me because of his crying

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hi >> greenoooooooo
you know the first i red your article i was shoked then i remembered another story in my country >> in Alex
the teacher not only leave a lifetime trace but he caused the little boy's death
you know these kind of stories makes me scared what if such thing happin to my child..
am not sending him to school to die
thanks sweety
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the only banishment and the strongest one was reducing the mark of the careless pupil, believe me that was enough and so effective,
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Thanks :15:fotoo:15:for your previous comment
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Reducing their grades is one the punishment tools that some teachers prefer to use against their lazy & naughty pupils!!
though,sometimes some of them will respond to this kind of punishment by saying:That's O.K w them & they do not really care if they lose one mark or twenty
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That depends of course on their age & level either they are still young and do not know the true meaning of losing those valuable grades or they are just a bunch of stubborn & careless teenagers who never think carefully about their coming future
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Still, I totally agree w you darling that this kind of punishment is way better than the harsh physical ones
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[SIZE=3][COLOR=Black][SIZE=4]thanks dear for sharing us w your valuable opinion I really appreciate your lovely passing sweety
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Green Salad:)(f)

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you know the first i red your article i was shoked then i remembered another story in my country >> in Alex
the teacher not only leave a lifetime trace but he caused the little boy's death
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Dear:15: Sabreena :15: I do not know sweety but , maybe you are talking about this
sad & horrible story
:confused:
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مدرس يقتل طالب لأنه لم يحلّ الواجب الدراسي



القاهرة - احمد الصادق:

تسبب مدرّس مصري في مقتل طالب يبلغ من العمر ١١ عاماً وذلك بعدما انهال عليه ضرباً لأنه لم يحل واجبه المدرسي !

وفي التفاصيل أن مدرّس مادة الرياضيات هيثم عبد الحميد ٢٣ عاماً عاقب زميل المجني عليه (عمرو) بالمسطرة لأنه لم يحل الواجب الدراسي بالكامل وعندما حاول المدرّس معاقبة إسلام كزميله عمرو رفض إسلام أن يتم معاقبته بسبب عدم إكمال جزء بسيط من الواجب وقد أدى هذا الأمر بالمعلم أن يعاقب الطالب خارج الفصل الدراسي حيث سدد إليه عدة ركلات في منطقة البطن أدت إلى سقوط الطالب مغشيا عَلْيه وذلك وفقا لما ذكرته صحيفة المصري اليوم الصادرة بتاريخ ٢٨-١٠-٢٠٠٨.

ونقل الطالب إلى مستشفى شرق المدينة في حالة صحية حرجة إذ كان يعاني من ضيق بالتنفس والنبض , واتساع حدقة العين وبعد لحظات بسيطة فارق الحياة متأثراً بهبوط حاد في الدورة الدموية والقلب وفشل في وظائف التنفس والمخ.

وتوجهت الجهات المختصة لضبط الجاني وإحضاره أمام نيابة المنتزه واعترف بجريمته وقال إنه ضرب الطالب بغرض التأديب وليس القتل فوجهت له النيابة تهمة القتل الخطأ للمتهم وأمرت بحبسه
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A new wonderful and amazying topic of yours Grenoo
It's indeed very important one
As you know me sweety
I've a very sensitive heart
I was shocked too
How can a humanbeing do such crime
Pooooooooooooooooooooooooooor angel
That little boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I coudn't imagine
As a teacher
I'm nervous one
and
more than nervous
But
I I've something
worst than a stick
it's my words
and they are harsher than a killing

I use them when I need to punish such naughty students
And you know
How many one that I have now
240 or more sometimes
I've less than you can believe of them
who are good students
who do their homework and interuct and participate
sometimes I do everything alone
because no one hearing me
but
I did many things to put them on the trucks of my lessons

But
Such a crimes!!!!!!!! Indeed it's horrible
Greenoo
Thanks Allah
for our
Beloved
ISLAM
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Green salad;9056703:
you know the first i red your article i was shoked then i remembered another story in my country >> in Alex
the teacher not only leave a lifetime trace but he caused the little boy's death
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Dear:15: Sabreena :15: I do not know sweety but , maybe you are talking about this
sad & horrible story
:confused:
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مدرس يقتل طالب لأنه لم يحلّ الواجب الدراسي



القاهرة - احمد الصادق:

تسبب مدرّس مصري في مقتل طالب يبلغ من العمر ١١ عاماً وذلك بعدما انهال عليه ضرباً لأنه لم يحل واجبه المدرسي !

وفي التفاصيل أن مدرّس مادة الرياضيات هيثم عبد الحميد ٢٣ عاماً عاقب زميل المجني عليه (عمرو) بالمسطرة لأنه لم يحل الواجب الدراسي بالكامل وعندما حاول المدرّس معاقبة إسلام كزميله عمرو رفض إسلام أن يتم معاقبته بسبب عدم إكمال جزء بسيط من الواجب وقد أدى هذا الأمر بالمعلم أن يعاقب الطالب خارج الفصل الدراسي حيث سدد إليه عدة ركلات في منطقة البطن أدت إلى سقوط الطالب مغشيا عَلْيه وذلك وفقا لما ذكرته صحيفة المصري اليوم الصادرة بتاريخ ٢٨-١٠-٢٠٠٨.

ونقل الطالب إلى مستشفى شرق المدينة في حالة صحية حرجة إذ كان يعاني من ضيق بالتنفس والنبض , واتساع حدقة العين وبعد لحظات بسيطة فارق الحياة متأثراً بهبوط حاد في الدورة الدموية والقلب وفشل في وظائف التنفس والمخ.

وتوجهت الجهات المختصة لضبط الجاني وإحضاره أمام نيابة المنتزه واعترف بجريمته وقال إنه ضرب الطالب بغرض التأديب وليس القتل فوجهت له النيابة تهمة القتل الخطأ للمتهم وأمرت بحبسه
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yes greenoo>> that's the story i was talking about>>
see .. what's going on ?? these r not teachers
they r monsters
thanks dear
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Greenooo
Your topic is amazing
I've many things to do now
surely
I'll be back
It's a very important to sand in this point
it's main thing we've to change our behavour at school
and classroom
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I've something
worst than a stick
it's my words
and they are harsher than a killing

I use them when I need to punish such naughty students
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Soul sister:15:Bentooo :15: I must totally agree with you darling
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We should lecture our pupils carefully and talk in a good & sensible way w them and try our best to choose our punishing and advising or guiding words and avoid any humiliating and insulting ones &
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by doing all of this we are setting a perfect and respectful model for them to follow
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Some times when I become sooo angry in the class room I utter & shot some bad & angry words at them but when this happen I force my self to apologize directly to my pupils for using those kind of words and inform the whole class that they mustn't behave badly so,I won't have to use those ugly words again w them
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the look in their eyes when I apologize to them is completely priceless
believe me
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Green Salad:)(f)


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I wanna tell you story
that happened
with me
last weekend
On last Wednesday
I've
1st grade
1AM4
and it's the only one class in 1st grade that I've
It's class full of naughty pupils
may be they are 37 pupils
I've only 6 pupils who are angels and amazing ones
I feel somtimes sorrow about them
they're studing in a jungle not in class because of the others
on Wed I punished some pupils and I was firinnnnnnnnnnng if this true meaning
مشتعلة غضبا ....
It looks like a World War
soooo, I shooooooooooooot and scream
I said many bad words
I stopped the lesson many times
I used all my technics all what I can do
But no one was listning to me but the poor angels
sooooo
I aproached from two Boys and they were the boss of the class
a teacher passing by
gave me a stick
I hold it
suddenly I saw a very little boy who was screaming.... and throwing chair on the ground
Beleive me that I was burning
I hit him twice
when
I come back home
many ideas came to my mind
I suppose
That his hands
broken because
I didn't feel how I hit him
Imagine
How many days
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday and satuday
I've to wait
three or four days to see him and his hands
I was morally tired
I saw him only today
I obologized it was
horrible feeeeeeeeling

Thanks ALLAH
he's fine
and he said to me
Miss I forgot it On Wednesday
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بنت الجنوب الجزائري;9072957:
I wanna tell you story
that happened
with me
last weekend
On last Wednesday
I've
1st grade
1AM4
and it's the only one class in 1st grade that I've
It's class full of naughty pupils
may be they are 37 pupils
I've only 6 pupils who are angels and amazing ones
I feel somtimes sorrow about them
they're studing in a jungle not in class because of the others
on Wed I punished some pupils and I was firinnnnnnnnnnng if this true meaning
مشتعلة غضبا ....
It looks like a World War
soooo, I shooooooooooooot and scream
I said many bad words
I stopped the lesson many times
I used all my technics all what I can do
But no one was listning to me but the poor angels
sooooo
I aproached from two Boys and they were the boss of the class
a teacher passing by
gave me a stick
I hold it
suddenly I saw a very little boy who was screaming.... and throwing chair on the ground
Beleive me that I was burning
I hit him twice
when
I come back home
many ideas came to my mind
I suppose
That his hands
broken because
I didn't feel how I hit him
Imagine
How many days
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday and satuday
I've to wait
three or four days to see him and his hands
I was morally tired
I saw him only today
I obologized it was
horrible feeeeeeeeling

Thanks ALLAH
he's fine
and he said to me
Miss I forgot it On Wednesday

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Similar to this situation happened alot with me before:15:Bentooo :15: especially at the early years of my teaching, sweety
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So, what I learned from it is to avoid punishing or hurting any one of my pupils before the weekends so,I could be able to check on them on the next day quickly
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By doing that, I do not spoil my weekend thinking about school again
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:ss:


Finally and and by leaving all kind of harsh and strict physical punishment >>I rarely live those kind of worrying moments and feel those horrible emotions
once again
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Dear Bentoo>>Your worrying motherly emotions toward your pupils are sooo true producing from a loving and caring sensitive heart
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im thinking about this poor boy what his feelings now imean is he mentally able to go to school again ?? & icant believe what this :eek:teacher did its shocking
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