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ღ Sali ღ 01-12-2007 2,922 رد 224,595 مشاهدة
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The last few days
I leaved a bad days and I really suffered Because
My colleagues talked badly behind each others
They don't talked to me but that happen infront of me
The others as well as didi the same
that made me
feel the worst feeling
But I decided to stop them
all of them
I did it Greenoo
Some of them
treat me badly
But
few days ago
everything is ok
each of the knew his/her falts
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sweety when I tried to stop somebody from crossing the bad talking to one of our colleagues she said I only uttered mistakenly what they said about her but if I was truly a mean person I would passed all of the
terrible words and speeches that they all said behind ur back,greeno
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And at that moment I was
& I am still really shocked and regretful that I tried to stop her
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Coz she torned out every pretty portrait of my dearest collegues
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That's right
You'r right
When I stooped them
They couldn't say a word because they talked about anothr collegue really badly
and they said they're right
But
I made my speech with them ver short
so they knew at last that I'm not joking when I stop them
they beg pardon and they give me the right for that
and they said that they're wrong and they've to get away of this bad and horibbbbbble behavor
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We can say that both of us got an entirely different feedback : me I was asked
not to interfere====>
while
you were
welcomed warmly
by
their
blaming
Conscience

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I hope that fotoon and dreamy shared us the topic
Greenoo
As usual I'll do my best to stop them even they

No one can bear ALIBI

ALIBI : is talking bad in the back

isn't it???? Am I right????l

ask me not to interfere

I've shameless face
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Any one can share the topic w me and Bentoo and add her valuable comments we will be waiting to hear from you our dearest brides
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Sooo
lets chat chat chat
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Hey Girls
talking behind other's back is like killing them with a very coooold knife
I believe if I need to critisize someone or say anything it's better to do it face to face
i find it really sick and unrespectful for someone's own to talk about others behind their back
life needs self respect as well as respecting others
best
حبيبة خلي
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حبيبة خلي;9186345:
Hey Girls
talking behind other's back is like killing them with a very coooold knife
I believe if I need to critisize someone or say anything it's better to do it face to face
i find it really sick and unrespectful for someone's own to talk about others behind their back
life needs self respect as well as respecting others
best
حبيبة خلي

Of course sweety we must all agree w u
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I just like the deep description that you gave for it
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talking behind other's back is like killing them with a very coooold knife

Slowly the knife goes inside our shocked heart
but,
Quickly we start losing or let me say erasing every pretty memory we kept for who stabbed us w it
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Thanks dear for sharing ur valuable opinion w us
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Keep chatting dear
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حبيبة خلي;9186345:
Hey Girls

talking behind other's back is like killing them with a very coooold knife
I believe if I need to critisize someone or say anything it's better to do it face to face
i find it really sick and unrespectful for someone's own to talk about others behind their back
life needs self respect as well as respecting others
best
حبيبة خلي

Dear 7abeba
Welcome sweetie
and nice to see you again here
I agree with you
We've to talk to the others face to face
If want to give there bad or good characters
That's exactly what I do in my life
but Not with all people because
sweetie
Not all the people accept this
So we've to know whom we've to advice if our critics for giving pieces of advices
if not
I suppose that we've no right to interfer
We hope to keep chatting sweetie
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hi there
its my first time on chating so dont get chokked of my bad writting.
about talking about each other,i think its avery bad habet but i wounders why are we doing that?is it because of heatness?? i dont think so
i gess that we try to full our time by talking about other people
here in USA i dont see that alot like in arab world
i think that because peopels here dont have much time to talk
they are always besy
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hi there
its my first time on chating so dont get chokked of my bad writting.
about talking about each other,i think its avery bad habet but i wounders why are we doing that?is it because of heatness?? i dont think so
i gess that we try to full our time by talking about other people
here in USA i dont see that alot like in arab world
i think that because peopels here dont have much time to talk
they are always besy


Well you've got a point sweety
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to fill thier free time
mmmmmmm
maybe
coz ,it's known also as : women's first favourable hobby
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Sweety glad that you've joined us
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So,keep on chatting dear
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عاشقة81;9187961:
hi there
its my first time on chating so dont get chokked of my bad writting.
about talking about each other,i think its avery bad habet but i wounders why are we doing that?is it because of heatness?? i dont think so
i gess that we try to full our time by talking about other people
here in USA i dont see that alot like in arab world
i think that because peopels here dont have much time to talk
they are always besy

Sweet sister
You're welcome
in our lovely forum
I hope you'll enjoy your time with us
Thanks for your reply
Concerning your language it's ok we may help each other here
Your question is very important
Why we do that???l
Why people do that??l
according to you it's the time
and this's possible
May be it's nature
We're different from them
i.e
American and Arabian people
here
Women are the most but nowdays
Men love this GAME
as well
Thanks for your being here
And
Hope you'll keep on
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salaam ladies
thanks for your words i really appreciate that
i've been in the States for a while to study
and i've noticed that people don't put their nose in your life as we do
i guess that this happens because we have much more freetime. as Asheqaa 81 said
and for criticising others there are different ways and styles, each depends on the situation and the person you're talking to
criticising is not for giving advice only, but also to stop others where they should stop
thanks again
حبيبة خلي
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7bebat Khelak
Thanks for your reply
as you said
it's depends on the person that speak
But it's really horrible behavour
We've to stop it as possible as we can
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criticising is not for giving advice only, but also to stop others where they should stop
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Some people are really arrogant and soooo blind that they won't care about the bright light
we'll use to spot on their horrible mistakes
to
force them stop
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Also," we have the right to check others' behaviors but not ours
coz
we are
just enjoying
that role
much
better
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Meaning:Using the light of cruel truth is soo easy and is much fun than being burnt under its burning heat
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Al Salam 3lekom wa Ra7mat Allah wa Brakatoh

How are u alllllllllllll

Nice to chat here again

Greeno your mention the problem about taking behind some body

First of all in Islam it's forbidden if the talks are bad, but it became as easy as any other bad habits like listen to harmful songs,….ect….

I mean that people used to do this habit even when they know it is forbidden, the problem now how we can stop this, I really don't now, even if we controlled ourselves for awhile, it comes again and again,

To be honest, before when this situation happened in front of me, I stopped the person immediately or sometimes I walk away. But really this doesn't stop the problem.

Do you now what the new now, when I set with my sisters or any women, I notice that my sisters say "Sub7an Allah wa Be7amdeh Sub7an Rebia al 3them" when they leave,

When I asked one of them why you say so,, she replied that "we may say something bad or we talked behind somebody" so the God will forgive me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Helooooooooow what??? but you already did so, and even if the God will forgive you , what about the others, from the beginning why you said so why why whyyyyyyyyyyy??????


Sorry my reply is long but believe I said nothing until now....

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hi Um Nooooooooooo7................... I allready
had my breakfast, but I don't mind
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When I asked one of them why you say so,, she replied that "we may say something bad or we talked behind somebody" so the God will forgive me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Helooooooooow what??? but you already did so, and even if the God will forgive you , what about the others, from the beginning why you said so why why whyyyyyyyyyyy??????
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I really enjoyed reading your long answer and personal opinion honey
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It was soooo true
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My life as a cartoon character:eek:
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Lets' go back on time ladies>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> well few years f
:tongue:or mee and many many many years for all of you
Hehehehe
:naughty:
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I'm just joking Ahem any way
:tongue:
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Do you still remember all of the lovely & amazing old cartoons that we used to watch when we were little kids

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Are you still memorizing & singing their epic and meaningful songs
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o you remember any line from the many beautiful and interesting children stories and magazine that you used to read in the past
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They were soo great>>weren't they
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Good stories that taught us many good manners and lots of morals
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Well I have lots and lots of things to talk about and different things to discuss in this great topic but I'm gonna leave the rest for you dear ladies

Here are some qs to help you in your discussion
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What was ur fav. cartoon
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Did you imagine that you were a cartoon character
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What was ur fav. fairy tale or children magazine
??
what do you think of the new kids cartoon these days
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you can add anything you like
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so, please
start chatttting
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notes
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I dedicate this epic topic for my lovely friend Fotooooon
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;)
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