I got a serious problem, I think !!!

الله يهديك اختي تقربي لله وصلي وربنا يبعدك عن هذا الشي
ماعرف ايش اقول لك
ان شاءالله الخوات يساعدوك

First can u speaking arabic?

Second u said that u live in french, then why in ur personality file u wrote (live in india(
If u can understand arabic i will give u some advice.

i used to live in india with my dad because he's Hindi,
but i moved to france few years ago, and yeah, i speak arabic

إذا يا اختي ممكن أنا اسألك اسئلة وانتي
تجاوبين عليها لأني ما فهمتك ماذا تريدين بالضبط من نصيحة.

اين المشكلة إن كنتي تحبين فتيات وذلك بحدود شرع الله؟

لماذا توصفين لنفسك(lesbian)؟ هل هناك مشكلة او علاقة مع فتيات تحبينهن؟


ثقي واتوكلي على الله واتقربي الى الله.

إن شاء الله هذا الشيء يكفيكي.

لا تصاحبين صديقات السوء.
سؤال:هل سافرتي لوحدك ام معاكي محرم؟

I'm a French-American citizen,
I went over there with my parents then moved out,

and I really like girls, like "like".b
if you know what i mean,

it's the way any girl would be interested in guys,

just tell me what to do?

اذا انتي تقصدين (( شذوذ )) فلابد انك تتوبي وتروحي عند طبيبه نفسيه ممكن تساعدك

لان الشذوذ احيانا مو مساله انحراف والواحد يستغفر لا لا الشذوذ يبغي له اضافه لكذا حد يوقف جنبك ممكن تكون الهرمونات الذكوريه زايده عندك ويبغالك ادويه وممكن يبغالك جلسات ارشاد نفسي وتغير بيئي وبدايه جديده ابديها بالتقرب من الله عشان يكون فعونك وتوكلي عالله فكل شي

((( من توكل على الله فهو حسبه ))

وتذكري ان الله غفور ورحيم

اختي الله يهديج واحب اسالج اذا اكنتي تسمعين عن هالاشياء ومن ثم تطالعين افلام او ناس يقمون بهالعمل او تقرين عن هاذي الاشياء؟

لانه مستحيل مستحيل مستحيل واحد مايفهم بهالاشياء اسويها اكيد تدرجتي والشيطان خطوه خطوه

لانه شي بالفطره في شي اسمه الفطره السويه بس انتي وجهتي قلبك ومخك لعكس هالفطره ونميتيها....

يعني مستحيل بنت عاديه بين يوم وليله تخترب لازم تكون شايفه او سامعه او قارئة او جميع ما سبق.....

فاول شي لازم تصومين صيام عباده بالاكثار من الصلاه وخاصتن الليل وتصومي اكل تقليلين من الاكل لانه الغذاء يمد بالفتمينات اللي يحتاجها الواحد ليكون عنده طاقه وقدره عالقيام باشياء واعمال

وثانيا اذا كنتي تطالعين افلام غير اخلاقيه ابعدي عنها واذا تقراين كتب او مجلات ابعدي عنها اذا كنتي تسمعين عن هالموضوع او دعوات في هالموضوع ابعدي عنها

ثالثا والاهم رفيقات السوء ابعديهم لانهم يشجعونج وتعرفي عوحده تقربج لرحمن وبحيث ما تجرئين عالقيام بشي معاها

رابعاً مو معناته الوحده اللي تميل لرجال معناتها هاذا الشي الطبيعي لا الميل للجنس الاخر بعد مصيبه فاخذي سالفة انج ماتحبين الشباب شرف لج وعزة لنفسج وحباً في الله

خامساً تحشمي اختي في لبسج وجلسي مع المحشمات.


في ختااااااااااام كلامي ابعدي عن مداخل الشيطان في هاذا الموضوع انتي جوفي الشيطان يدخل لمخج وقلبج كيف من اي باب واغلقيه ..... واذكري

قوله تعالى: ((وَلَـكِنَّ اللّهَ يَهْدِي مَن يَشَاءُ))

يعني اذا أردتي الهدايه واجتهدي فيها الله بي هديج اسعي اختي والله بوفقج


واسال الله المولى عز وجل ان يصرف عنج كل مضره ويغفرلج ويرحمج

u have to see a Psychiatrist >>

becouse ur problem is out of will & u cant control ur self when u see girls

but keep remembering that what u do & what u think of girls is haram
this is the least thing i can tell

god helps u

well i cant advice in any thing << but try to avoid the things in ur mind << try to thing more about ur futur ,,
and things like that<< fill ur time studying ,, reading ,, praying i more better,,


brb

that's strange try to put in your mind that all girls are like sisters to u. Well, try to read some qura'an everyday perhaps it will help.

no u cant be lesbien
im sure
thats just a tenag feelings as all tenagers feel
i'll talk about it with u later
coz its kind of privecy
bcoz it ur problem and i cant descuss it in public
:)
i'll be with u

sister this is seriouse and you ned to talk to a doctor that you trust.
It might be all in your minde but it might also be something more than that and in that case you will need more help.
I want you to know that there is lots of help now for what you are going through and people are now ore aware of it and more understanding.
Just remember God is always there and he will help you if you try hard enough.

You have two options...either chage your thinking and avoid these feelings and try and believe that you dont like girls that way. Or the other choice that you would have to change yourself and become a male. These are the only two ways that would make it not haram for you.
Pray a lot.
Hopefully God will help you.

isten sweetie i just ran into one of the sisters comments saying you have to see a psychiatric and am telling you and please dont attempt to do the mistake of a life time i dont blame them if they say so cause they dont know a bit about the life style in the western society i live in America and i know that all the western world think the same , simply if you go to any therapist they wont diagnose you with any disorder they will only interpret it that you are simply a lisbian that should come out of the closet !!! thats wrong ..dont think this way its even haraam to think about it am 100% positive that the life style effected your religion and the girls gone wild concept played your brain well all i can advise you is to go back to you religion forget about the nonsense and please do read QUURAAN and you wont experience those devilish thoughts trust me about the guys you might not feel sexually interested but you should remember you cant judge until you experience a life with a man in halaal way so dont worry you shouldn't really experience any sexual drive over men passing by you on the street
keep the advise and design yourself a goal that you promise yourself to fulfill and we are all ready to help you with any questions .
Thanks

Hello my sister think that this thinking is because you still adolescent so you are very sensitive to any relationship of friendship... try to experience all available methods to go out from this .use your time and study activities useful if you can't go out from these emotions try to consult a psychiatrist while maintaining the prayers and reading the Quran constanty and good luck ohkti

شمس حياته;3903315:
isten sweetie i just ran into one of the sisters comments saying you have to see a psychiatric and am telling you and please dont attempt to do the mistake of a life time i dont blame them if they say so cause they dont know a bit about the life style in the western society i live in America and i know that all the western world think the same , simply if you go to any therapist they wont diagnose you with any disorder they will only interpret it that you are simply a lisbian that should come out of the closet !!! thats wrong ..dont think this way its even haraam to think about it am 100% positive that the life style effected your religion and the girls gone wild concept played your brain well all i can advise you is to go back to you religion forget about the nonsense and please do read QUURAAN and you wont experience those devilish thoughts trust me about the guys you might not feel sexually interested but you should remember you cant judge until you experience a life with a man in halaal way so dont worry you shouldn't really experience any sexual drive over men passing by you on the street
keep the advise and design yourself a goal that you promise yourself to fulfill and we are all ready to help you with any questions .
Thanks

now that is the answer that i was looking for,
If I go to therapist they will try to convince me to accept "who I am" and live life normally,
and a mattar of fact, that's what happend exactly,
I got mad, couldn't get help, felt suicidal at some point,

now what i'm looking for is the actual way to do it,
I tried to have a relationship with a guy in my high school,
but couldn't, because when we together, i feel like "i don't belong here"

seriousely, i thank you a whole lot for ur advice, considering you live in the states and know how western think.

Peace

pofsdee;3904860:
now that is the answer that i was looking for,
If I go to therapist they will try to convince me to accept "who I am" and live life normally,
and a mattar of fact, that's what happend exactly,
I got mad, couldn't get help, felt suicidal at some point,

now what i'm looking for is the actual way to do it,
I tried to have a relationship with a guy in my high school,
but couldn't, because when we together, i feel like "i don't belong here"

seriousely, i thank you a whole lot for ur advice, considering you live in the states and know how western think.

Peace

sWEETIE

Why would u ever think of relations in your age ??

u r too young and u have a life waiting for u


look at the bright side of ur problem,,, u dont like guys that meand u will never make a tirroble mestakes ,,,,


just try to focus in ur study,,family,,,hoppies ,,,and read more Quran so you will know that God will be always there for u and believe me u will be relived


avoid this teenagers thoughts from ur mind to make sure that it will NOT grow up with u




God Bless u Sweethear :B_wink:

الله يشافيك

yeah you should stay away from the health service anyway i will tell you am soo sure that its
just about you being in your age dont worry everything will change with time plus sweetie you dont have to like all types of males its about harmony if you know what i mean . when your emotions become more stable trust me you will know what i mean and you will be clear in terms of what you are looking for and how tyo take it to the next level in terms of marriage and family building, so dont rush and keep yourself busy with studies and try to get closer to god and after a while you will laugh and thank god that everything was just a big silly teenage joke...god bless and hope u the best .dont hesitate if you need any help .