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hi girls, how r u all? i like the website alot its amazing,, and its amazing how u girls are like sisters.

anyway i have a problem and i felt that i wanna share it with somebody. i've got engaged (ktb ktab) last month, i like the guy i am engaged to, but he is very hard to deal with, he gets mad very fast he cant help it, unfortunatly i still donno how to make him calm down, although i am always good in cooling down the ppl who gets angry. he was engaged before me, and he has many sisters they all from the kind who likes to control thier men and he doesnt like that at all, he thinks i am like them,, i am trying to clarify that am not like that, i am the type that ants to feel that her husband is a man real man.. he thinks all women are the same, i am facing a very hard situation.. i love him, sometimes i feel tha ti cant live with him,, he has a very kind heart i cant say anything about him but he is a nice man.. but we dont agree on manythings we always have different ideas about the one thing.. he doesnt like to take other ppl openion and if he lisntens he just listens just because he doesnt wanna say just shut down this tobic, he just does wt in his mind.. i feel that i cant live like that i used to my family, they used to take my openion in everything they do although i ama the yongest but they trust my openion and the way i think.. what should i do to solve this problem? i am really lost.. some times i think of getting seperated at the same time i fee ltha ti want to be with him,, i want to help him improve his life more, but if he is not welling to change then its going to be a very hard experince..

help me girls, let me think if u were i nmy situation wt would u do? then ask Allah to help me.

thanks girls.. thanks for such a great website